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Aug 03

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Over...

There is the time when you just need to left everything behind you and try to see those everything from a different point of view.

Relationship, friendship, love, care and honesty... I just need to see them from another perspective. So blurry to figure them out while you are inside them...

So... From one point of view I can call it over but it also a new beginning from a different angle.

Good bye... It's so hard to accept what you have done to me but maybe if I could see it from a different point of view I will understand it...



14 Comments

donceh @ August 21, 2003 1:51 AM

yup right ! not everyone know how to see a problem from many angles..dont worry, u are not alone in this world.. take care.. i’ll see u soon..

avianto @ August 22, 2003 1:34 AM

satu pihak merasa sakit dan ‘feel guilty’ sementara satu pihak lain tidak tahu harus merasa apa… kedua pihak (harusnya) merasa sedih…

an @ August 22, 2003 6:40 AM

whatta… ? i just met ayu few days ago ask me to sms u… ??

hopefully you are fine, man…

Jay @ August 22, 2003 12:44 PM

kata pepatah: “Don’t cry because it’s over; smile because it happened.”

someday satu pihak yang sakit akan mengerti, dan satu pihak yang ‘feel guilty’ tak akan bisa menyesalinya, meskipun setiap orang harus menangis sekaligus juga harus tersenyum

kalah pada kenyataan bukanlah sebuah excuse, karena manusia hidup karena memilih, jika kenyataan yang datang bukan pilihan kita, maka buatlah sebuah pilihan supaya menjadi kenyataan

everything begins with choice!

sok tahu pisan

T @ August 23, 2003 5:29 AM

True, looking at the case from other perspective…

Fairy @ August 27, 2003 9:22 AM

Hi Avianto, website kamu keren! I am a follower of the Six Feet Under series too, and I love how morbid but yet how funny it is. Sekarang di HBO sini (Malaysia) lagi main season two, kemarin diputer episode 22, di mana Nate dan Brenda mulai ragu dengan decision mereka untuk menikah. Kalau di Indonesia bagaimana?

ari @ August 28, 2003 7:52 AM

My thoughts are with you, my friend.

reena @ August 29, 2003 11:59 AM

There will be a brighter day than today dear friend :-) for everythin under the heaven is for a purpose and be thankful for it though it seems hard to cieh apaan sih gue…get well soon cheers ^^

Sinta @ August 31, 2003 3:06 AM

Feeling you there. Don’t worry, everything will be fine. I use that technique a lot.

I try to distance myself from the problem, so I can see it in a different perspective. But often it leaves me only with apathy.

In every dark cloud there is a silver lining :)

widi @ September 2, 2003 11:57 AM

just trying to browse via pda. the info is displayed properly. thanks to standard.

where have you been? there is no new entry. do you accepted in grad program?

d @ September 3, 2003 1:39 AM

hey, udah lama gak mampir nih gue… pa kabar? hope you’re hanging in there… :)

smart cat @ September 3, 2003 11:18 AM

“Love is a decision. You decide to love or not. Love doesn’t let you wait for only a second. Love doesn’t make you sad. Love doesn’t hurt you. The absence of love does all of those.”

You agree with that?

ina @ September 19, 2003 1:13 AM

Is really inspire me every thing you put on the point of view of yours…..

very amazed me….. how you created your imagination and thought…

I wish i have had time to created things in my mind like you did….

well….is very touching and moved….. i said this because i did review all yours work… greatttttttttttttt job or would i say ……..

Wahyu @ March 31, 2004 6:49 AM

Heheh, nggak ada matinya deh :)

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